YOUR COUPLE PATTERN

Every couple has a pattern. Discover yours.

Answer about yourself, make a few guesses about your partner, and reveal how the two of you work together.

Reveal our Couple Archetype

Here's what a result looks like.

Every couple gets an Archetype like this one, built from how you answered and how you guessed your partner would. It's yours the moment you finish, no waiting on anyone else.

Psychology Meets Biology

Couples apps look at the relationship and stop there. Therapy goes deep, but usually only after something's already broken, one person at a time.

Decode Love looks at both of you together, before there's a problem to fix. Biology can add another layer later, but it's not where your result starts.

Discover Your Pattern Together

Couple Archetype

Complete the intake and get your Couple Archetype right away. It's provisional until your partner answers too.

Decode Love Index

Your Decode Love Index shows up the same time your Archetype does. It starts as your current view of the relationship, and gets sharper once your partner joins.

Every Couple Has a Type

See your Couple Archetype now. Invite your partner to make it real.

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  • The Grounded Pair

    Build safety first, steady, dependable, protected.

  • The Attuned Pair

    Turn toward each other, warmth, care, responsiveness.

  • The Explorer Pair

    Grow by going, novelty, appetite, shared adventure.

  • The Purposeful Pair

    Pointed at something, shared meaning and direction.

  • The Builder Pair

    Build a life, execution, ambition, getting it done.

  • The Spark Pair

    Run hot together, fight hard, love hard, repair fast.

  • The Balanced Pair

    Succeed together while staying yourselves, negotiated autonomy.

  • The Complementary Pair

    One is the gas, one the brakes, and it works.

  • The Magnetic Pair

    Opposites, and the difference generates real force.